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Something I said?

I know that everyone has a certain level of crazy in them. I mean, what the hell is 'normal'? But I know I'm not so off base that I'm the oddball. I don't judge people for their religious views, sexual orientation, preference on dog vs. cat; but I seem to be getting judged. Why? I know I'm not qualified to judge people on how they live their lives so why do people insist on judging me? Today has been a day where I just want to walk away from everyone (except family) and hold my cat. I am a friendly person, I don't go out in the world and try to hurt people or think of ways to screw them over but I seem to be the only person spewing positive energy and not negative energy. Even now, I'm not trying to be negative but I am wondering what the hell is going on? 

I belong to meet-up groups online and I like to go out and meet new people. At one of these events, another lady and I connected and we talked. Two weeks later she e-mailed me that she enjoyed meeting me and that she would like to get together and meet for lunch. I agreed because I, too, had a pleasant time meeting her. 

We meet today and started talking. During the course of the conversation we got into the subject of men and marriage. Here's where I get lost...as we were discussing her divorce 20 years ago to a man who's eye wondered, I told her about my unfortunate experience with an ex-boyfriend who was the same way. Some time during the course of the conversation, she obviously disliked what I had to say. She abruptly said she had a meeting and left. At least she paid for her own lunch. I was left perplexed at what just happened. 

I sent her an e-mail thanking her for her invitation to lunch and hoped that we could do it again soon. She replied. "I'd rather not. Thanks." 

WTF?!!

What happened? Is it something I said? I asked as much with no reply. I'm not going to hound this person into giving me an answer. If she doesn't want to talk to me anymore, fine. But I sincerely don't know why. If I did something offensive and knew it, I could take the rebuff. If I did something offensive and didn't realize it, at least allow me the opportunity to apologize. 

*sigh*

Some days are just not worth getting out of bed and putting on a bra. 

Until next time...

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